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EXPRESSION (The Corporate Jungle continues.....)

 Speaking Loud is an expression and remaining silent is inihibition?

 But actions speak more than words.

To prove yourself you don't need to make some noise loud it's just that you have to be patient and let your work speak. Success will always choose the best and if you are the best and better than the rest then why to vex. Silence and patience are wonderful virtues to build up a calm and pleasant personality, always remember those who shout don't mean it neither in words nor actions. its just their vocal ability that brings in a feature of pretence. 

Raising voice and lowering the demeanor to satiate your ego should not be the trick rather choose your words for others to learn and pick. Your character is your pride but if  you break down just to get down to a cynical mindset, the pride is just crushed ice. The real status of who you are unveils swiftly and very few get along with you. 

In the city of conditional valor every conversation turns into an arguement regardless of former behaviours. Once who were fellows, turn thankless and ungrateful for the past, to make for the outrageous and demanding present, get on to pulling down those who are always available to help is like stepping up the ladder and breaking the steps climbed already, leaving none behind to depend upon.

Amity at work rather cordial relationships built on the basis of regard and respect are a thing of the past which now have turned into public diplomacy leading to conflicts and grapevine. Just because you are lacking the power of  being patient, in order to keep up with your own might, aggression becomes your best weapon. This brings no good but just earns you a deal of animosity from the immediate society which you are part of, you lose credibility and become taken for granted, present but always unnoticed. Then you tend to look for shelter outside your habitat, but your attitude does not change. To be mighty you have to conquer your ownself and not just keep trying on others.


As part of a team everyone has to be given equal space and each member should be considerate enough to cooperate and not demean the one left behind, specially when your dirty work is being cleaned by them. Being knowledgeable and being wise are two different things, whereas being witty turns everything upside down in an amicable environment but it is wisdom that takes it all to care for the clutter. The witty turns wicked just to fulfill their needs however suffering it may cause to the team. 

Survival of the fittest is the deal but its about smart work and not tricks you play to belittle others and let yourself safe. Those who work behind the scene with sincerity may not be wicked or witty but definitely carry the skill of being righteous. That's where it hurts you even if you become the survivor. The one who plays an underdog by sparing the chances for your survival, when retaliates, you cant absorb and you just reject and disregard all the positive bygones done under cover.

Its not the strongest or the most intelligent that survives, it is the one who is most adaptable to change and circumstance who gets through.

So sit back and take a break, introspect and self -realize the power of being righteous and patient not for others but for your ownself, for your survival can last longer only if your virtues are strong. Otherwise, you are not the only one who can slay, the world is full of many to whom you too can fall prey.

Comments

Taru said…
Its not the strongest or the most intelligent that survives, it is the one who is most adaptable to change and circumstance who gets through.

Something that resonated with me the most!
Well written Aditi.
Aditi Bajaj said…
Thank you! You are a great example of embracing a variety of adaptations graciously.

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